Does Birth Order Determine Success?
This
is an interesting study for all of us and again there can be exceptions.
By Kate Lorenz, CareerBuilder.com Editor
All men may be created equal; but a look at their pay stubs will tell you
that their incomes are not. Blame it on social class, education -- even luck,
but according to Dalton Conley, New York University professor of sociology
and public policy, inequality begins at home.
In his book "The Pecking Order: Which Siblings Succeed and Why," Conley
says that 75 percent of the income inequality between individuals in the United
States occurs between siblings in the same families. He points to the diverse
fortunes of Bill and Roger Clinton, and Jimmy and Billy Carter as examples.
Research shows that first borns (and onlys) lead the pack in terms of educational
attainment, occupational prestige, income and net worth. Conversely middle
children in large families tend to fare the worst. (Marcia! Marcia! Marcia!)
"A child's position in the family impacts his personality, his behavior,
his learning and ultimately his earning power," states Michael Grose,
author of "Why First Born Rule the World and Last-borns Want to Change
It." "Most people have an intuitive knowledge that birth order somehow
has an impact on development, but they underestimate how far-reaching and just
how significant that impact really is."
Conley concedes that birth order is significant in shaping individual success,
but only for children of large families -- four or more siblings -- and in
families where finances and parental time are constrained. (In wealthy families,
like the Bushes and Kennedys, it has less effect.)
Here's a look at what impact your birth-order may have on you:
First Borns:
More conscientious, ambitious and aggressive than their younger siblings, first
borns are over-represented at Harvard and Yale as well as disciplines requiring
higher education such as medicine, engineering or law. Every astronaut to
go into space has been either the oldest child in his or her family or the
eldest boy. And throughout history -- even when large families were the norm
-- more than half of all Nobel Prize winners and U.S. presidents have been
first born. Famous eldest children include: Hillary Clinton, Bill Clinton,
Richard Branson, J.K. Rowling and Winston Churchill. And macho movie stars
are First Born, too, including Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, Sylvester Stallone,
Bruce Willis and all the actors who have played James Bond.
Middles:
Middle children are more easy going and peer-oriented. Since they can get lost
in the shuffle of their own families, they learn to build bridges to other
sources of support and therefore tend to have excellent people skills. Middle
children often take on the role of mediator and peacemaker. Famous middle
children include: Bill Gates, J.F.K., Madonna and Princess Diana.
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How to end a letter the RIGHT way

By Ivan Levison, Direct
Response Copywriter
Every copywriter knows that it's extremely important to
start a sales letter (paper or email) correctly. In the first couple of sentences
you have to grab the reader's attention and get them on your side. If you don't,
the
greatest product features, the most wonderful benefits in
the world, won't get you anywhere.
What is not as widely appreciated is the fact that you also
must handle the ending of your sales letter with equal skill. All too often,
copywriters seem to run out of steam and settle for a flabby, weak ending which
can really hurt response.
Let me show you what I mean. Here is the last paragraph from an old Symantec
sales letter intended to upgrade their WinFax Pro installed-
base to the latest version:
"Don't wait . . . call 1-800-631-8118 today to upgrade to the
new WinFax Pro 9.0 for only $49.95. I guarantee you'll
enjoy its new features right from the start! If not, return
it within 60 days for a full refund (excluding shipping
and handling).**
Sincerely, P.S., etc.
**Subject to the terms of our license and warranty."
What a downer! Out of all the upbeat, motivating ways to
end a letter, why highlight the fact that you are excluding
shipping and handling from your guarantee - then add insult to injury by adding
asterisks that refer to the terms of your license and warranty? Not a good
choice! You should never end your letter with a reference to a legalism. (Another
thing
to avoid is ending
with your fax or 800 number. I would guess that about
HALF of all direct mail letters end with a phone or fax number!) Nope. It's
much better to end on an upbeat note that really has some energy, some spirit,
and some motivating
power.
Let's take a look at the ending of an old Quicken 99 sales
letter from my file that works much better:
"After all, you've worked hard getting where you are today.
You deserve to have your money work hard for you. And
there's no better, easier way to do that than with Quicken 99 -
the indispensable financial tool that helps you recognize
when opportunity is knocking... and opens the door to a
brighter, more comfortable, more secure future!
Sincerely, P.S., etc."
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"You,
you and you... Panic.
The rest of you, come with me."
- U.S. Marine Corps Gunnery Sgt.
Make
your business meetings worth the time
Are your organizational meetings dull, uninspiring, and inefficient? Do
they drain morale, waste time, and focus on the past? Would you like them
to be vibrant, engaging, productive, and future focused? If so, here are
some suggestions to supercharge your business meetings.
· Assess your current situation. Be honest. Determine what is and
isn’t working and commit to improvement.
· Raise your expectations. Demand more from your sessions. Agendas
should be circulated in advance. Attendees should be on time, prepared, and
ready to actively participate.
· Set ground rules. No Web surfing or crossword puzzles. Keep your
sessions disciplined and business-like. But don’t forget the benefits
of humor to lighten things up and reduce stress.
· Have an agenda but be prepared to leave it. If a stimulating and
productive discussion develops, exploit it. Harvest those creative ideas.
You can always revisit less important matters.
· Challenge your meeting time and formats. If your meetings get in
a rut, try something different. Don’t underestimate the power of timing,
location, and format.
· Know when to quit. If you hit a big breakthrough, consider stopping.
End on a high note.
· Avoid the trivial. Handle routine updates via memos or e-mail.
· Stretch and challenge the team. Your meetings are valuable personal
and organizational development opportunities. Treat them that way.
· Recognize excellence. Praise and reward performance.
· Focus on the positives and keep future-focused. Maintain a positive
tone. Discuss your yesterdays only to improve your tomorrows.
· Recap and take action. Resolve issues, determine a course of action,
and assign action steps. It’s important to make recognizable progress.
· End on a unifying note. Reinforce the common bond and move forward
together.
You can make your business meetings more productive. Commitment, discipline,
and a passion for excellence will make it happen.
- Edward Mitchell, Manager, Management
Resources Consulting Group Inc., www.mr-cg.com
"Everything that irritates
us about others can lead us
to an understanding of ourselves."
- Carl Jung
Selling
for a Change
By
Burke Franklin, Author, Business
Black Belt
You can lead a horse to water,
but you can’t make him drink. . .
Try salting the oats.
- Anonymous
Selling is often not just convincing someone to buy your product or service but to change what they already have or what they are doing now.
Some customers are already interested in changing to something new and they know they need to buy your product or service. Others need to be made aware that something new is available and that they should upgrade as soon as possible. Either you sell the customer your product or service or your customer sells you that they don’t need it. Either way, a sale occurs. It’s your job to convince them to purchase your service or product. But after you educate them and they still won’t buy. . . what’s the problem?
As you already know, most people are afraid of change. Where does the fear come from and why? Like many people, I developed a fear of change during childhood. Looking back, I sense that changes were not necessarily improvements in my situation, rather they were dictated and initiated by others for their convenience. Perhaps the changes were not ones that I would have made. As a child, things were not in my control.
You don’t need to be a psychologist to see that my mental association with change was somewhat negative. Perhaps you had a similar experience. Fortunately for me, my reaction later on in life to all of this was ultimately to take control of things and make changes that suited me. I developed the ability to make changes that improved my situation. To this end, I’m relatively easy to sell to because I like to invest in improvements. Some people, on the other hand, still resist change because they’re afraid that the change will actually make things worse. These people are difficult to sell to.
Some customers avoid change because they aren’t sure how they got as far as they have. They think they were lucky and they don’t want to rock the boat. Any change at all could upset everything! Without getting much further involved in the psychological details of the fear of change, consider it as a possibility behind your customer’s resistance to buying.
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"The impossible is often the
untried."
- Jim Goodwin
Beware of Invention Promotion Companies
The
New York State Consumer Protection Board and the United Inventors Association
(UIA) are warning would-be inventors to be wary of invention promotion firms
that charge thousands of dollars in advance fees, but offer little help to
their clients.
"Excited inventors often get caught up in the false claims and promises
made by some invention promotion firms," said Teresa A. Santiago, Chairperson
and Executive Director of the New York State Consumer Protection Board (CPB). "You
can lose thousands of dollars relying on these promises and even lose the
rights to your invention."
The CPB today joined the UIA in urging inventors to use government and private
resources to investigate invention firms before paying large advance fees.
This warning comes as ABC Television is the latest to highlight the work
of so-called "basement inventors." At least two competitors on
the program, "American Inventor," lost thousands of dollars to
invention promotion scams.
To gather information on invention promotion and patent firms, inventors
can use the website of the U.S. Patent and Trade Office (www.uspto.gov/web/offices/com/iip/com
plaints.htm). The agency features a list of complaints filed against specific
invention promotion firms.
"More help is available from the United Inventors Association, a non-profit
advocate for inventors located in Rochester, N.Y.," said Chairperson
Santiago. "Since 1990, the UIA has been guiding and advocating on behalf
of inventors. Its websites (www.uiausa.org and www.uiausa.com) contain an
enormous amount of valuable information including links to other websites
dedicated to the protection, education and encouragement of small inventors."
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Tax Tricks -- Know
the tax impacts of remodeling
Walk around your neighborhood and you're likely to see homes being remodeled.
Perhaps you, too, are considering a new deck, kitchen or bathroom this
spring. If so, understand the tax consequences.
If your project qualifies as an improvement to your home, you’ll enjoy
some tax benefits. But if the project is a repair, there’s generally
no tax benefit. It’s not always easy to tell the difference.
An improvement is defined as something that adds value to your home or extends
its life. So putting in a new kitchen, building an extension, or adding a
new deck are improvements because they add value. Replacing the roof is an
improvement because it extends the life.
A repair, on the other hand, merely keeps the home in good working order.
Examples include painting inside or out or replacing a few missing shingles.
The tax benefits arise because you can add the cost of your home improvements
to your original cost basis. That’s the amount you first paid for the
home. When you sell, a higher cost basis means a smaller capital gain. And
generally you’ll pay tax on a capital gain greater than $500,000 ($250,000
for singles). So the smaller your capital gain, the less likely you are to
owe tax when you sell.
That’s why it’s important to save bills and receipts for any
projects that may qualify as improvements. Make a note of what they were
for. You may need to keep these for years until you sell your home. But when
you do, they could be the key to reducing your tax bill.
- Edward Mitchell,
Manager, Management Resources Consulting
Group Inc.,
www.mr-cg.com
"Class never runs scared.
It is sure-footed and confident in the knowledge
that you can
meet life head-on and handle
whatever comes along.
Class never makes excuses.
It takes its lumps
and learns from past mistakes."
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